San Francisco

Support female empowerment with this trio of chick-rocking, individually screen-printed designs (on hoodies, tees, tanks, even dresses) from Oakland's 5733: 20s/30s Chinese-American film star Anna May Wong sucking down a cig, a stenciled Japanese lady flashing a peace sign, and a fiercely afro'd Pam Grier. Power to the she-ple.

Triple your thoughtfulness with this Italian-made asymmetrical ring stack: an 18-karat gold band atop a silver band bearing two black garnet chunks, atop another silver band w/ a big ol' cubic zirconia, which she's now 66.66% more likely to carelessly mistake for a diamond.

At 8th and Camino Real; Carmel; 1.800.582.8900

Through April, $165 gets you a night's stay for two in this super serene ex-mansion with amenities like an outdoor heated pool, garden spa treatments, and a classy Terrace Grill. Mention Thrillist during booking, and the concierge'll set you up with a beach bonfire, blanket, and bucket of champagne -- or just hit up the Paso Robles Motel 6, buy a bottle of Cook's, and light stuff on fire.

2033 Fillmore St; 415.440.1999

The high-end SF man-satchelists make chick stuff too, including ritzy, wave-inspired handbags/clutches in "undulating" top-stitched blue and black leather, and the cultivated "Presidio" collection: structurally designed, magnetically closed sacks and wallets in a red so evocative of the GG Bridge, you'll have to talk her down off it when Gossip Girl is inevitably canceled.

Help her record her musings about how much she loves you with these ltd edition daily and weekly pocket diaries, bound in either shiny, NSFMen cherry red/black patent leather, with expandable inner pockets and adhesive labels for marking important dates, and unique fold-and-lock packaging to keep you from discovering her musings about how much she loves not-you.