Nicole Caldwell is Thrillist's Sex & Dating Editor as well as a published author and aspiring dueling piano-bar player. She splits her obsessions equally between Bob Dylan and Tom Robbins; and takes her tequila neat, no training wheels. A New Jersey native, these days she rounds out her knowledge of and experience in both sex and dating with frequent travel between New York City and her organic farm in Northern New York. So far, four-wheelers trump subways. Follow her adventures on Twitter at @NicoleMCaldwell.