DO Remember an Open Bar Is a Marathon, Not a Sprint
The bartender isn’t going anywhere. Pace yourself.
DON’T Double Fist
See above. Double fisting looks tacky and leads to nowhere good, fast. Plus, if you’re holding a drink in each hand, how are you going to eat that mini quiche?
DO Use the Bar Line to Mingle With Other Guests
The bar queue is a great place to meet new people and find potential dance partners. Asking the person behind you in line about their order is a foolproof icebreaker. “Oh, you take your Margarita up? How fascinating. I’m more of an on-the-rocks type of guy/girl.” And just like that, a bond is forged.
DON’T Force Shots on People
This is such a no no. Unless the bride or groom insists on a wedding party round of Fireball, do not start handing out shots willy-nilly—even if that Lil Jon song comes on.
DON’T Do Shots
Come to think of it, shots are off the table entirely. Stick to sipping.
DO Make Sure to Eat Enough
The salmon might be dry and the conga line may be bumping, but skipping dinner is not an option. You need sustenance to soak up all that open-bar booze. And no, a liquid dinner doesn’t count—even if you do eat all your garnishes.
DON’T Smash Glassware
We don’t care how much fun you’re having, these are not your glasses to smash. Unless, of course, you are the bride or groom following the Jewish tradition of breaking the glass. If that is the case, then please, smash away.
DO Ask Your Tablemates if They Need Anything
Chivalry isn’t dead, folks. If you’re making a trip to the bar, have some manners and ask your tablemates if they need cocktails. L’chaim.
DON’T Complain When the Bar Doesn’t Have Your Call Liquor
It’s free. Deal with it.
DO Tip the Bartender
Just because the liquor is free, doesn’t mean the bartender is working for nothing. Show your appreciation by throwing a few bucks his or her way. Bonus: You might get some preferential treatment. Who’s next? You are, that’s who.
DON’T Overstay Your Welcome
When the party is winding down but your buzz is still going strong, avoid the urge to take over DJ duty. It’s time to call it quits. As the old saying goes, you don’t have to go home, but you can’t stay here.