Food & Drink

The Greatest First Date Bars in NYC

Published On 02/25/2016 Published On 02/25/2016
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First dates are about as comfortable as a kick in the face with a golf shoe (Son in Law shout out!). The good news is they tend to get a tad more relaxing with booze, and since this is New York, there is no shortage of booze-filled establishments.

But that doesn’t mean that all bars make for the perfect first-date bar. A recipe for a perfect first-date bar requires a specific combination of ingredients: it should be unpretentious, but still have some cool-factor; it shouldn’t be so loud that you can’t have a conversation, but also not so quiet that the bartender can judge your inevitably awkward first-date talk; and finally, it should be somewhat romantic, but not to the point where your date will think you're ready to propose. Well, fret not, because these 14 NYC bars more than fit the bill for the perfect first date.

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​Evelyn

Alphabet City  
This no-frills cocktail parlor on Avenue C manages to be at once casual and date-y, with exposed brick, dim lighting, ample room to stand or sit, and libations divided up into four categories: Juleps, Collins, Cocktails, and Spirited Phosphates (basically spiked sodas). Grab a stool at the bar, or if you’re looking for something a little more private, slide into one of the secluded booths. Plus, it’s named after the concept of a woman with "many layers," so you automatically have a Shrek joke to use on this date.

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​Maison Premiere

Williamsburg
If the charm from the U-shape marble bar and dark wood tables at this New Orleans-themed cocktail den don’t add a little fire to your date, the absinthe (there’s an actual fountain of it), oysters, and a beautiful outdoor garden that's straight out of the South should do the trick. 

Night of Joy

​Night of Joy

Williamsburg
When you crave the comfort of your living room, but don't want to invite a stranger from Ok Cupid to your apartment, this dark and cozy lounge with antique carpets, sofas, and one of those fancy eggs like in Risky Business does the trick. Enjoy your slightly awkward getting-to-know-you conversation over signature infused liquors like rosemary-and-ginger-infused bourbon, and in the warmer months, make sure to hit the rooftop, outfitted with lanterns and string lights, and another full bar.  

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​ABC Beer Co.

Alphabet City 
This part-beer bar, part-beer shop is quiet enough so you can talk, and maintains a perfectly unpretentious vibe despite the fact it pours very high-maintenance (read: delicious) beers. There's also some very cushy couches and Guess Who! And do you really want to date someone who isn’t up for a game of Guess Who?

​Forgtmenot

Chinatown
If you want to meet at a beach bar, but don’t have the funds to whisk your guy or gal away for a spontaneous first date in Kauai (how dare you), ​Forgtmenot is your solution. It’s got the laid-back surfer vibe, rum drinks like the Dark ‘n Sandy, and plenty of random trinkets to gaze at should you need to break eye contact (or require a conversation piece). 

Highlands NYC

Highlands

Greenwich Village 
Outfitted with exposed brick, taxidermy, leather banquettes, and lots of candles, this Scottish restaurant/pub has all the trappings of a cozy country hunting lodge, save for the fact that it's in the West Village. In addition to a pretty substantial food menu (should you and your Tinder date decide you want to make your night into more of a dinner) there's a literal book of cocktails featuring classics and signatures like the Catholic Guilt with whisky, ginger, bitters, and Fernet-Branca. Word to the wise: get here around happy hour if you're looking for a quiet date -- any later and you'll be on a date with 40 people.

Bell, Book & Candle

Bell, Book & Candle

Greenwich Village
If Highlands is crowded and you're looking for somewhere a little quieter to regale your date with stories of your semester abroad in Florence, there’s an equally suitable option right across the street. Bell, Book & Candle is super intimate, with lots of dark wood, exposed brick (are you sensing a theme here?), excellent drinks and bites, and a secluded back corner should those drinks really kick in. Kidding! (Not really.) 

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Weather Up

Prospect Heights
Old-fashioned romance may be dead, but old-fashioned cocktails are alive and well in this hidden Prospect Heights tavern. Opt for the Bartender’s Choice (they know what they're doing), and if you’re hungry, grab some bites off the dinner menu like the excellent poutine. If the date is really going well, scoot from the bar over to one of the corner booths or head to the outdoor patio strung with twinkle bulbs. 

​Fat Cat

West Village 
Icebreakers are essential on a first date, and this underground basement bar has all the icebreakers you could ever need, with countless games -- from pool to ping pong tables to shuffleboard and just about every board game imaginable -- all soundtracked by live jazz. It can make even the most excruciatingly terrible date tolerable. 

Lois

​Lois

Alphabet City  
The gals behind ABC Beer Co. and ABC Wine Co. opened a totally unpretentious wine bar next door that divvies out 16 different wines straight from the spigot in an intimate setting with a cool laboratory feel to it. It’s the perfect place to choose if you know your date likes wine but you don’t know a sauvignon blanc from a cabernet sauvignon. Test some of the different unique vino varieties and then pair your glasses with small plates like duck confit arepas.

Crown Victoria

Crown Victoria

Williamsburg 
Should you want to keep your date in the daytime hours to alleviate the whole “well it’s late, I may as well just sleep over” thing -- or, more likely, you just really like drinking outside -- this backyard bar is the move. Park it at one of the patio tables in the warmer months, and get to know each other over pitchers, BBQ, and people-watching. 

Lantern's Keep

​Lantern’s Keep

Midtown West
This cozy speakeasy inside the Iroquois hotel is a true hidden gem. First of all, it’s basically Clue; it looks like Colonel Mustard is going to come out any second and clock you with a lead pipe -- and is so intimate, it almost feels like you’re the only people in the entire bar, even when you’re very clearly not. Plus, it’s got an insane cocktail list featuring a number of shaken or stirred options (though the move is the Bartender’s Choice; you’ll never be let down).

The Ten Bells

​The Ten Bells

Lower East Side
A no fuss, no muss, sexy dark wine bar with plenty of seating, The Ten Bells is perfect for a happy hour date, when you can get $1 oysters with your $15 carafes. There's also a menu of over 20 types of great tapas, should you need more sustenance while working your way through the list of mostly natural wines. 

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​Barcade

Williamsburg
As we already said, activities are perfect first date material, and these actives come in the form of arcade games (which is pretty hard to beat). Barcade’s got the entire vintage lineup from Miss Pac Man to Donkey Kong, all of which can be played with a craft beer in hand -- if you’re skilled enough, that is. 

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Liz Newman is a freelance writer for Thrillist, and yes, has been on a date at every single one of these bars. The ones with friends were probably the most romantic. Follow her on Instagram and Twitter @lizn813.

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1. Evelyn Drinkery 171 Avenue C, New York, NY 10009 (Alphabet City)

A dark Alphabet City cocktail parlor named after the concept of a dreamy woman with "many layers," Evelyn features libations like the Hoochie Coochie Mama w/ gin, rye, Cynar, sherry & Cajun bitters. Head here for a date or drinks with friends -- there's plenty of sitting and standing room and cozy booth seating.

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2. Maison Premiere 298 Bedford Ave, Brooklyn, NY 11211

This cosmopolitan city-inspired oyster bar and cocktail den is a classy Williamsburg spot where you can enjoy a stocked raw bar, and lounge outdoors on its greenery-filled patio. We suggest bringing a first date here, as the swank and intimate atmosphere & delicious menu will be sure to wow them.

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3. Night of Joy 667 Lorimer St, Brooklyn, NY 11211 (Williamsburg)

Stepping into this bar is like walking into your grandmother's place; vintage Victorian throw rugs and ottomans are set up for you to lounge on while sipping lemonade. The difference is that this lemonade, of an orange blossom variety, gets a bit of extra kick from some added rum. It's one of many three-ingredient-max cocktails on a list shared between both floors of this bi-level den. Our advice? Head to the second floor, a rooftop bar with a frozen-margarita station to complement the list of beers available downstairs.

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4. Alphabet City Beer Co. 96 Avenue C, New York, NY 10009 (Alphabet City)

What could possibly be more alluring than a craft beer store that doubles as a bar? With some 350 varieties of suds, Alphabet City Beer Co. is a beer nerd's paradise. Inside the cozy, clubhouse-like spot, you'll find a dozen tap beers available on a rotating basis and an extensive selection of bottles in the refrigerators lining the walls. Food is minimal and strictly falls under the bar food category (Sigmund's pretzels, grilled cheese, and meat plates), but it's just enough to entice you to stay for a cold beer, even if you only came to pick up a six-pack.

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5. Forgtmenot 138 Division St, New York, NY 10002 (Chinatown)

Forget Me Not is one of the best bars in Chinatown, and we highly recommend that you bring any date that you are looking to impress here. This bar feels more like an island hideaway and less like a New York City bar, complete with rum drinks and random trinkets scattered around. Think of it as an alcoholic treasure hunt!

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6. Highlands 150 W 10th St, New York, NY 10014 (West Village)

Highlands in the West Village is an upscale gastropub with a Scottish-inspired menu. This classy dinner and drinks spot features dishes like beer-brined chicken, braised pork shanks, and of course, Scotch eggs. Scotch, malt whiskey, and gin-based libations take center stage on the cocktail menu. Brick walls, tartan chairs, and a mounted buck’s head give the whole restaurant an old-fashioned, rustic feel.

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7. Weather Up 589 Vanderbilt Ave, Brooklyn, NY 11238

You can expect strictly no-nonsense cocktails at this smart speakeasy in Prospect Heights, which is unmarked on the outside, simply recognized by its white-brick exterior. There's plenty of standing room inside the chic, white-tiled space to accommodate weekend crowds, who head here to enjoy old-fashioned cocktails like the Kentucky Maid (bourbon, lime juice, simple syrup, fresh mint, and cucumber) or the Bartender's Choice (an expertly crafted surprise). But if the bar is already full upon arrival, don't fret -- there's seating in Weather Up's adorable back garden, too.

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8. Fat Cat 75 Christopher St, New York, NY 10014 (West Village)

Fat Cat's impressive rows of ping pong, pool, and shuffleboard tables, plus Scrabble galore, will boggle the mind even before the shockingly good live jazz gets going. Don't expect to get a table right away -- especially on the weekends -- but if you're interested in entering one of its gaming tournaments, check out their website for an updated list of dates, times, and prices.

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9. Bell Book & Candle 141 W 10th St, New York, NY 10014 (West Village)

A dimly lit, romantic dinner awaits in this reclaimed restaurant lined with candles and plush, royal blue booths. West Village's Bell Book & Candle stun in both aesthetic and culinary expertise, as made evident by the seafood-heavy menu, full of artfully presented dishes like spice-rubbed yellow fin tuna and chimichurri-marinated hangar steaks, sided by vegetables the likely picked form the rooftop garden earlier that day.

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10. Lois 98 Avenue C, New York, NY 10009 (East Village)

Don't expect to see any bottles at Alphabet City's wine bar Lois: tradition is bucked with a bar serving some 15 vintages from a tap, which is known to be better than old school bottling methods for flavor longevity and lower costs. It shows: red-heavy, global vintages are fairly priced by-the-glass, from Argentinean malbecs to Californian pinot noirs. Order some cheese and a charcuterie plate in the sleek space with mod accents, and Lois becomes the kind of wino you can love.

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11. Lantern's Keep 49 W 44th St, New York, NY 10036 (Midtown West)

This is one of New York's most spectacular and authentic speakeasies, featuring an extensive cocktail list that is a favorite of Midtown locals. Their cozy, secluded, and romantic atmosphere makes Lantern's Keep a great place to bring a date.

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12. The Ten Bells 247 Broome St, New York, NY 10002 (Lower East Side)

A small, intimate space offering up oysters and 20+ tapas alongside an impressive wine list, Ten Bells was practically made for a first date. Come at happy hour, when oysters are a dollar and carafes of wine are $15.

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13. Barcade 388 Union Ave, Brooklyn, NY 11211

This arcade-themed bar (the first outpost of four) offers a vintage lineup ranging from Donkey Kong to Asteroids to be played while sipping craft beers from countless taps. While there's no kitchen, there is a binder full of local restaurant menus, so you can get food delivered if you work up an appetite.

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