While there are plenty of powerful female vampires on the show, none of them are shown as being particularly great parents in the vein of Godric, and the Lorena-Bill storyline is just ghastly: she wanted a depraved relationship with a good man she could turn into a monster but still exercise complete control over, so she bit Bill in the neck. Maybe she turned into a hooker-eating son-molester because something horrible happened to her back in 900AD, but regardless, if you're a mom, and you're undead, raise a manpire, not a blood-drenched boy toy.
By contrast, the vampcest between Eric and his sister Nora might be tempestuous, but it's also portrayed as hot, not demented, one of the few incestuous TV relationships that hasn't come with (so far) serious repercussions. Basically, if Taboo II had had lines like "We fight like siblings, but we fuck like champions", people not named Adam Carolla would remember that they made a second Taboo**.
Championship sex aside though, Pam and Tara's relationship stands out as the one with real promise, not because the creators have a lesbian fixation, but because the two might as well not be related. Pam has no maternal instinct whatsoever, and Tara, despite her human mom ranking high on the worst person in the world list, has no desire for a substitute mother. Pam takes no responsibility for making Tara, and Tara assigns her none, leaving each of them free to get passionately aroused over the other's strata of fierce independence overlaying even fiercer emotional craving. This might really be Tru:Love.
This was far from a complete breakdown, but if you do become a vampire, hopefully it'll serve as a reminder that, even if you treat the rest of man's laws like the toilet paper you no longer have to use, you generally still shouldn't get turned on by the one who turned you, or the ones you turn.
*For Bill's crystal-clear views on human-on-human incest, consult Uncle Bartlett's Quotations.
**Actually, they made 23 of them, even though, just like the fourth Friday the 13th, the third installment was disingenuously subtitled "The Final Chapter".