"BDE is a quiet confidence and ease with oneself that comes from knowing you have an enormous penis and you know what to do with it. It’s not cockiness, it’s not a power trip -- it’s the opposite: a healthy, satisfied, low-key way you feel yourself. Some may call this 'oh he/she fucks' vibe, but that is different: you can fuck, but not have BDE. Some may call this 'well-adjusted,' but we know the truth."
But other takes were penned, many of which noted that BDE doesn't have to coincide with your physical anatomy. Rihanna, for example, has a massive case of BDE, as do Cate Blanchett and Cardi B, according to The Verge.
Conceptually speaking though, BDE is pretty elastic. Twitter had a lot of fun debating what and -- more importantly -- whom can exude this abstract form of unbridled dopeness: