You're all about the innuendo
Flirting on a date is a great way to gauge her interest. But blatant sexual references? Not so much.
"I can be so into a guy," says Alicia, 34, "but once he starts acting douchey with the sex talk early on, I am out. If you can't have a non-sexual conversation for two full dates, you're not worth sleeping with."
You're not consistent
Life is busy, we get it. But if you're making plans with her every 14 to 21 days, you're sending her from hot to cold.
"I was totally into this guy and we would have great dates every couple of weeks," says Janice, 29. "But it got to the point where I felt like we were on a Groundhog Day first date. It's not sexy to get those butterfly feelings and then have to sit around and wait for weeks on end to feel them again."
You flash your black card
There are some men who think that money impresses a woman, but being a baller can backfire. Bad.
"I once went on a date with a guy I was very attracted to but he would not stop alluding to how much money he had," says Gabrielle, 38. "'I just bought a $40 billion company,' he said over drinks. I was so turned off by his obvious insecurity and pissed off he was basically insinuating that I was a hooker."