"Gross table manners really repulse me," says Kitty, 38. "Talking with food in your mouth, not closing your mouth while chewing, and picking at your teeth will all work against you later in the evening."
She doesn't feel sexy
Sometimes, it doesn't matter how beautiful you tell her she is. If she's bloated or feeling less attractive, she might simply want a few days to bring her personal version of sexy back."I know it sounds a bit insecure," says Sarah, 35, "but if I do not feel hot it's hard for me to get into the mood."
You're overly (or under-) confident
It may sound a little like a tightrope walk, but several women we spoke with shared their desire for a man with healthy confidence. This middle ground is best described as self-assured but not in-your-face.
"There's a balance between insecure and cocky that a man needs to stay in for me to want to sleep with him," says Rachel, 27. "If he's too extreme either way, I get turned off."