Ultimately, bodysex workshops are all about connecting women’s minds and bodies to their orgasms. This is done by helping women find the power of their pussies through a series of activities like Group Share, Genital Show and Tell, Erotic Recess, and Guided Masturbation.
Here are nine things I learned from Dodson about orgasms.
Women need to run the you-know-what
"Running the fuck" is, hands down, my favorite Bettyism (and trust me, there’s no shortage of them). The expression dates back to the 1970s, when Betty hosted group-sex parties in the same space as the workshop, where I spent the weekend masturbating (a detail I consider pretty fucking exciting). The gist is for women to take charge during intercourse, to do what needs to be done to get off. This means using lube (especially if he's circumcised), maybe introducing a vibrator (for clitoral stimulation), and getting on top (to establish how fast and deep she’s being penetrated). It's like dancing, only the woman takes the lead. Betty says that you can also "run a fuck" from the bottom, but it takes more finesse. My advice is to get on top and screw like Michael Jackson intended: "don't stop 'til you get enough."