Don't just cancel! You must reschedule.
The point is to always tend to each other's needs, and acknowledge that you both want to do it with each other. It seems obvious, but the monotony of monogamy can make people forget how romance works.
This is bigger than sex
If you stop thinking of sex in the romantic sense and start viewing it as a goal, you will inevitably strive to make lovemaking a part of your routine.
Plenty of studies conclude the success of writing down your goals and checking them off when they're completed. If you treat your intimacy issues the same way, you become satisfied down there while also feeling like a more successful person.
Sex + success = succex.
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