Let's break this down. So basically, you can get that same tingly, explodey, warmy, best-thing-ever-y feeling without your body having to produce more sperm quickly. OK… but how? Krychman's suggestion? Strengthen your pelvic muscles, eat well, sleep, and decrease stress. Changing up your sexual positions is another way to reach the ultimate nirvana. Come join us, guys, in our pool of multiple orgasms. The water's just fine.
I'm a woman who never gets head. How can I get my boyfriend to go down on me?
Um… change boyfriends?
No, but seriously, this issue enters that murky world of double standards. If a man were complaining that his girlfriend never went down on him, we'd be outraged that he would want to make her do something she doesn't want to. The same should be true for men who don't want to go down on women.
We can't force people to do things. However… giving and receiving oral in relationships is one of the best and most intimate (not to mention FUN) things we can do for each other. If you want oral and your boyfriend isn't giving it to you, the first thing you should do is have a conversation about WHY. (Because seriously. WHY?!) Openness, honesty, and communication are the three pillars of any healthy relationship. Oral is the fourth.