Now, we talk on the phone all the time. One day, I sent Z a picture of my parents traveling in Iceland. His response was that he and I should go there ourselves. On a bit of a whim, we've now booked flights and are planning this trip together. The only problem is that now all I can think is that I shouldn't be seeing him again because he's in Chicago and I'm in California. I did fall for him. I don't know what to do. Please help!
This sounds like a classic, ultimate battle of head vs. heart. I think we both know you're not going to let this go and just walk away. Would it be easier? Maybe. But this seems like a real connection. You have feelings for this guy and now you're stuck riding it out. We have all been there.
The heart does not listen to reason.