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I'm going through a rough patch with a girl right now. She's quite a bit younger than I am, but girls mature so much faster than guys do.
We have been talking on and off for about a year now. We also work together. She has told me she loves me on many occasions. And then she also says that she doesn't know how she feels. She goes back and forth constantly. All the while, I have fallen completely in love with this girl.
She refuses to let me post pics of us together on any social media because she "thinks her family will have questions." Yet, she posts pics of her and other guys. Just the other day one of my so-called "friends" blocked me from her phone on everything. This happened two days after she and I had a deep conversation and kissed. Now I can't even talk to her... and I see that she and my "friend" have been hanging out more often.