Lotus + vibe
For this one, the man sits down with his partner on his lap, facing him like a human pretzel. This limits your mobility and allows you to rock back and forth at your own pace, as opposed to bouncing up and down. Add something extra to the experience by bringing in a vibe to use with one hand.
It gets better! Your torsos being so close together will keep the vibe in place so you can rock against it. Hands-free fun for everyone.
The spoon is usually a cop-out when you and your partner are too lazy for sex but too horny to just watch Stranger Things. Sure, spooning is totally sweet and intimate -- but it definitely doesn’t have to be. Instead of having one partner enter the other from behind while you're both on your sides, the person being penetrated can roll onto their back. The penetrator should be below the partner's legs, which can be spread. This offers really deep penetration -- and excellent access for manual stimulation.
Now, I think we can all agree there's no foreplay like a little oral sex. But, sometimes you have to spice up even the greatest of things. Instead of laying back for oral sex, get on all fours. The sensation of oral from below is a totally new experience than being on your back. A twist on regular oral sex is hot as hell and super-empowering.
An interesting and unique take on cowgirl, this position adds new depths (literally) of intimacy. Instead of sitting right on top, twist to the side so you’re sideways to your partner. It gives slightly less range of motion for slower, more passionate sex. It also looks super-sexy. It seems a little bit complicated, but it’s actually super-easy once you get into it.
Standing chair lift
In another welcome modification of standing sex, place one foot on a chair to add for easier access and less body strain. It’s much easier to have an orgasm when you’re not struggling to maintain an erection.