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How much does sex actually affect a relationship?
I've been married for five years and lately, my sex life hasn't been so great. It’s not like when we were first together and the sparks were really flying. Now it's just dry. Both of us work full-time and when we get home, we're almost always too tired to have sex. I’d say we have sex an average of once a week.
Here's the thing: Neither of us is complaining. Still, it seems unhealthy to be having it so infrequently. We still get along, but do you think this is bad for our relationship?