When a long penis hits "bottom" in a woman, what is it hitting?
Well hello there, and welcome to the cervix! When a penis goes all the way in, and is long enough, he will be hitting the back of a woman’s vagina, or her cervix. For most women, this feels equivalent to a pap smear... which, for the record, is not fun. The best way to prevent this is to take it slow and figure out the point at which to stop before inducing all those crampy, painful feelings we associate with going to the gynecologist. Which, again, for the record, is not fun.
Are there two or three sex positions other than missionary or doggie style you can recommend for a fairly tame couple to try?
Absolutely!! Just because you and your significant other aren't into sex swings, shower sex, or The Wheelbarrow doesn't mean you can’t still mix it up in the sack. Here are a few that will add just enough spice to please jalapeño lovers, without having to go full-on ghost pepper.