Done properly, the blow job is a perfect sexual act.
Oral sex is hot, it’s intimate, and it's got the power to catapult you into new relationship territory -- all while hopefully inspiring reciprocity. Yes, a great blow job can be a lot of fun; but there are times when going down can be a bit of a... downer.
Chances are good that if taking a toothbrush to your molars brings tears to your eyes, and you've never met a tongue depressors that didn't make you gag, blow jobs aren't your idea of a good time, either. Even the most manageable member, when brought anywhere near your throat, threatens throat spasms... or worse. Not exactly a mood enhancer. And a sensitive gag reflex paired with a head-pusher, larger-than-average penis, or special request for a deepthroat? Forget it.
But before you turn in your BJ card and give up forever, try these simple oral sex hacks to help repair the problem and keep you on top of your game.
It’s common for your muscles to tense up while performing oral... especially if you’re thinking I’m gonna gag, I’m gonna gag the entire time. The trick is to relax your body and mind beforehand. You know what really helps a girl unwind? Knocking out an orgasm or two ahead of the BJ. Food for thought, guys.