I decided to look at her text messages/Facebook chat and found they talk on both occasionally. No smoking-gun information found, but he occasionally makes flirty comments.
I have not confronted her about the info I found. She is the love of my life and I am just afraid I have been made a fool of.
Let's talk about this. I have a strong feeling that you wrote to me because of one main thing: you want me to confirm or deny, as an outside source, if I believe your fiancée is cheating on you.
I've read your story thoroughly, several times, and believe your fiancée is not physically cheating on you (beyond whatever happened in that hotel room); but she is clearly having somewhat of an emotional affair. This is a totally inappropriate work flirtation that has the potential to get out of hand. I can't fathom a woman carrying on an affair with a married father while gearing up to recite vows dictating she'll honor you for all time. And yet...