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Dear Auntie G,
I've been with my fiancée for the last five years. I'm really worried she's cheating on me and I don't know what to do. She's in advertising and has a friendly relationship with a co-worker who is married with kids. A while back, she and Ian went down to Atlanta to meet with a new client for their agency.
While I was reading my newspaper the next morning on her iPad I was surprised by a text from the co-worker. Only the first two sentences show up in the preview screen at the top, and I am able to see that it begins with "Last night will never happen again. Don't tell."
I asked her about it, and she said that they had been drinking. He tried to crawl into bed with her, she kicked him out, and that nothing happened. Later that week, I was on her iPad to look for an email. I open the email app to find an email between them from last fall, with her saying they can still be friends if it remains platonic.