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I have been in a committed relationship for three years. In the last 12 months my boyfriend has gone on antidepressants, rendering his already-low sex drive nonexistent. Masturbating is providing minimal relief, since I'm mostly overwhelmed by an uncomfortable feeling not unlike being crushed by a train and kicked in the gut. I'm finding this entire experience humiliating and exhausting.