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Dear Auntie G,
I met this guy online and we instantly hit it off. We live in different cities, but he was coming to mine in a few months so we planned to meet up.
I had second thoughts about meeting him; so when he came to town, I was waiting for him to convince me. But instead, he said it was OK if I couldn't. We ended up not seeing each other. I felt bad about that, and figured it would be the last time I'd hear from him.