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Dear Auntie G,
I met this guy online and we instantly hit it off. We live in different cities, but he was coming to mine in a few months so we planned to meet up.
I had second thoughts about meeting him; so when he came to town, I was waiting for him to convince me. But instead, he said it was OK if I couldn't. We ended up not seeing each other. I felt bad about that, and figured it would be the last time I'd hear from him.
But as soon as he got back home, he messaged me saying he was sad we hadn't been able to see each other. Since then, we've exchanged messages here and there. Nothing deep, but our conversations are always pleasant and enjoyable. I like him, but maybe he talks to me only when he's bored. I can't figure him out. Should I continue talking to him? I'm going to be in his city soon and don't know if I should see him. Help!