If you choose to stay with a person that you don't trust, then you’re putting both your sexual and mental well-being at risk.
If you don’t think that your partner is going to cheat on you, then why does the flirting matter?
Harris asks, "Have you talked about how this flirtation makes you feel? For some people, they get a thrill out of flirting and feeling desired, and it doesn’t go anywhere."
Says Ross, "We should be focused on how people communicate about their boundaries and agreements, vs. blanket rules. Ask your partner, 'Do I ever do anything that makes you feel insecure and left out?' Try to discover your needs."
And hey, if you’re spying on somebody’s Facebook, that’s uncool. And if he’s sending unsolicited dick pics to strangers; that’s not flirting, that’s harassment, and I give you my blessing to dump him, ASAP.