"I don't want to be the up-the-butt girl, because I mean… Men don't marry up-the-butt girls. Whoever heard of Mrs. Up-the-Butt?" -- Charlotte
First of all, every person in Manhattan is "an up-the-butt girl." This city will give it to you so hard, you'll have trouble walking the next morning, even in flats. In all seriousness, no matter what your position is when it comes to anal, there are men out there who would be glad -- grateful, even -- to wed a woman who's down for some butt stuff. Thankfully, our collective attitude toward anal has progressed since the late '90s; and even by Season 4. Today, we're definitely not a post-butt-sex society, but we're getting there.
"I'm not even sure bisexuality exists. I think it's just a layover on the way to Gay Town." -- Carrie
Looks like someone needs to learn their ABCs -- specifically, their LGBT and Q's. Bisexuality is most definitely a thing... and negating an entire category of sexual preference is almost worse than being prejudiced against it. Bisexuality Ville is as much a sexual-identity destination as Gay Town, except with double the chance of taking someone home on a Saturday night.