Men fake orgasms too
Interestingly enough, men fake orgasms for the same reasons that women do. I was lying in bed once with a 33 year old, when he rolled over and took a deep breath, “I have to admit something. That second time? I didn’t actually come.” He explained that he had deposited the empty condom in the trash after putting on a good act of grunting and gasping to a crescendo. Why? “I wanted you to think I was a stud.”
Fascinated, I began to ask some of my male buddies, being careful to word the question as an inquiry, and not as an accusation. “If you have ever faked an orgasm, what were your reasons?” The most common answers were: “I wasn’t going to get there and I just wanted to be done,” “I didn’t want to hurt my partner’s feelings,” and “I was tired.”
Nowadays, I make it a point to tell my lovers, “If you ever feel like you just can’t come, let me know and we can just finish me off instead.” And what do you know, everyone is happy!
Many straight men love anal stimulation
There is no correlation between liking butt-stuff and sexual orientation. Buttholes have nerve endings! You know that euphoric sensation of passing a big poop? Imagine how great your butt can feel when something is going in. Why limit yourself?
That said, going all-in with anal sex, while enjoyable, can require a bit more prep time and aftercare. So once you get into that phase of butt stuff, be sure you know what you’re doing to avoid a disaster. I recommend reading The Ultimate Anal Sex Guide for Women by Tristan Taormino, and Bill Brent’s The Ultimate Anal Sex Guide for Men.