I like to think that this filter system also weeds out those men who are bad at sex, as I assume sexist men are generally not the most giving in that department... but I may need to continue my studies to be sure of this conclusion.
Most people don't care, because sexy is sexy
Look, y'all. This last year, I've been with the most conventionally attractive roster of sexual/romantic partners of any period in my life, and guess what? Not a SINGLE DAMN ONE cared about my lack of shaving. Only one guy even said anything, and he ended up being a dud anyway. The fact is, a sexy person doesn't stop being sexy because they have visible body hair.
I feel more confident about my body than I've ever been
As a body-positive, queer feminist, I hate to admit that I've done quite a few things to my body for men. Like so many women my age, I've shaved, waxed, plucked, dieted, juice cleansed (never again), and Spanx'ed myself on a somewhat regular basis. Growing up with a mother who constantly dieted and criticized my appearance on a daily basis, I was set up perfectly for a lifetime of hating my body.