Everyone has the right to his or her own lingual preference. But we should consider from where these titillating tastes come.
Cunnilingus does seem to be just as popular as blowjobs for people in their 20s, according to the National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior. Sixty to 70% of women in their 20s reported receiving the gift of tongue in the past year. These are similar numbers the men in the same age group who reportedly received oral sex. Progress!
Of course, your decision to go down on a woman is always your choice. Just like some men don’t like to give women head, some women don’t like to get it. Just like someone women don’t like to give blow jobs. Everyone has the right to his or her own lingual preference. But we should consider from where these titillating tastes come -- and perhaps even defy some oral-sex norms.
A full 70% of women claim to need clitoral stimulation to orgasm, according to the Kinsey Institute. So if you decide going down on a woman isn’t your thing, cool; but it’s time to get creative in other ways in order to deliver the all-important clitoral stimulation. And this doesn’t necessarily have to come from a tongue. Some advanced and well-lubricated digital stimulation is always lovely whether it is delivered from a partner, toy or a woman’s own hand. There is nothing sexier than a confident man who isn’t intimidated by any of these three options.