You know what's worse than no foreplay? Bad foreplay.
Most men will swear they’ve got the magic touch. But there’s more to foreplay than placing a tongue or finger on her hotspots. "He fingered me like he was tickling a cat!" said Michelle, 25. "I need to actually feel you legitimately touching me to feel some sort of satisfaction."
Approaching her body like you're in science class
It's not clear why some men think using phrases in medical textbooks is sexy -- but too many of us have had perfectly hot moments ruined by men saying words like "vagina" and "anus." Using our night together to do your own side research is also a big no-no. "I once hooked up with a guy who went down on me and looked at my vagina with an inquisitive expression as if he were studying a map," said Natalia, 26. "Yes, they're all different. But I'm not a science textbook. Stop studying and get on with it!"
Acting like an MVP
Yes, sex is like a workout in that it's hot, sweaty, and gets your heart rate up. But treating her like your teammate is not going to make her want to play again. "I once had sex with a guy who did not give me an orgasm but still gave me a high-five after he had one," said Kelsey, 32. "And then said, 'Man, I'm good.' I was floored."
Changing positions just as the going gets good
This is where paying attention to your partner's responses comes into play. If she's moving or moaning like she's into it -- or better yet, telling you, keep doing what you're doing. "There is nothing worse than the guy who is so eager to get to the next position that he completely steals your orgasm," said Monica, 36.
Maneuvering her body like a blow-up doll
You're visual, we get it. Still, moving her limbs around like Gumby so you can achieve the POV you're used to seeing in your favorite porn is unsexy... and super creepy. "I once had this guy spread my legs apart like scissors and focus intensely as he hammered away," said Felicity, 32. "I don't even know if he remembered I was there."