James said he doesn't have much of an issue with "outside" emotions. "[I] feel confident enough in the relationship that I have [with my wife]," he said. "It may sound cocky... but I don't think, I can't see her finding somebody else that would [give her] what she and I have."
Most people won't understand
Steve admits a lot of people aren't down with open relationships -- but said that doesn't give anyone the right to judge.
"They are not going to be able to deny the foundational principles from which I operate," he said, "which are essentially based in internal trust, and support, and honesty. If they were to deny that for even a second, then they would be denying a portion of their own world, too."