So what if he was wrinkly, in all the places you might expect? I admit, I wasn’t as physically attracted to him as I had been to other partners. But our chemistry was everything. Have you ever seen a girl with a hideous boyfriend and thought, “Seriously, how the f$*k did he pull that off?” Let me tell you. Either he's just a nice friggin’ dude; or being with him boosts her self-confidence.
I was a fantasy for my older man... which was an aphrodisiac for me. There was zero jealousy on both sides, and I never saw him check out another woman -- due to him being satisfied, of course, but also him being well-seasoned in how to respect the opposite sex.
Timing is everything
The Olsen twins both have boyfriends 20 years their senior. If Mary Kate or Ashley was approachable and not icy fashion prodigies, I would love to ask how they make it work.
In my case, the age gap was actually a cavernous black hole defying space and time. He didn’t want to get married (again). I knew I eventually wanted a family. He didn’t want to be raising a kid at 60. I got that; but even though I knew there was no future, I didn’t cut it off completely. I still liked the guy.