Old can be sexy
Age comes with wisdom. This guy was confident, successful, and comfortable with himself: a significant departure from the insecure, possessive 20-somethings I had dated.
So what if he was wrinkly, in all the places you might expect? I admit, I wasn’t as physically attracted to him as I had been to other partners. But our chemistry was everything. Have you ever seen a girl with a hideous boyfriend and thought, “Seriously, how the f$*k did he pull that off?” Let me tell you. Either he's just a nice friggin’ dude; or being with him boosts her self-confidence.
I was a fantasy for my older man... which was an aphrodisiac for me. There was zero jealousy on both sides, and I never saw him check out another woman -- due to him being satisfied, of course, but also him being well-seasoned in how to respect the opposite sex.