Of course, Dr. Freed assures us that this emphasis on physical beauty does not mean a man doesn't also value a woman's mind, "Evolved men look for a dynamic combination of what they find visually appealing and a true equal."
I suppose no relationship can ever truly be equal. Someone will always have the upper hand. Someone will always have better attributes in some respects and not in others.
Even when couples are "total equals," there is something that one person will have that the other lacks. Someone is going to make more money, be more attractive, have a better sense of humor. That is just the nature of reality. The key is finding balance; a balance that works for you and your happiness.
So, while we may not be able to find someone who meets our match both physically and intellectually, we can hopefully fall somewhere in between. You have to find what's right for you.