Forgetting that consent exists in clubs, too
Most men would never just grab on girl on the street, but once they get into a strip club, way too many forget that consent still exists. "Don't assume you can put your hand around my shoulder or waist. Don't assume you can touch me in any way without asking me," Thick says. "We are fantasy for hire, but if your fantasy is being demeaning, rude, and vulgar, and expecting me to play along, I'm gonna need to see some serious cash first. Don't be rapey. I can't believe I even have to say that, but consent is sexy."
Expecting a make-out session
Furthermore, most entertainers are simply not going to kiss you. "Stop trying to make out with us. Men, stop and think. Yes, it's flattering you’re that into it. But if a dancer kissed every guy in the room, we would all be in urgent care with some sort of kissing disease, like tonsillitis or strep. We don't have company-offered medical, so I'd prefer not to spend half a night’s pay in doctor bills."