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Club BNB - Bench and Bar

San Francisco
Bar
$$$$

A sibling of Club 21 Nightclub, this colorful gay and lesbian bar is the largest in the Bay Area, boasting 6 full bars, multiple dance floors, a billiard’s room, smoking lounge, and second floor VIP lounge. The Oakland address is Bench and Bar, Inc's -- which has been around since the '80s -- third location, and continues to draw crowds with its variety of music, drag shows, pageants, and go-go dancers.